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Can You Tell Anything at All by a Person's Weight?

Can You Tell Anything at All by a Person's Weight?
By Deb Burgard, PhD 
If you have grown up in this culture, you probably associate quite a few things with fatness and quite a few of the opposite traits with thinness. Almost every audience comes up with the same lists:

Fat: 
  • Lazy
  • Depressed
  • Sick
  • Out of control
  • LoserBad

Thin:
  • Productive
  • Confident
  • Healthy
  • Disciplined
  • Sexy
  • Good

Even though these associations are not something people from other cultures (or other times in history) believe, they are so strong and unquestioned in our own time that they form the basis of our weight stereotyping, bias, and stigma.

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National Eating Disorder Week is Feb. 26th-March 3rd 2012. 

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Learn to Love Your Body by Loving Your Inner Self: Part Three

A Woman’s Life Journey of Body Acceptance
Part Three:Moving into Body Acceptance for Women  
 
For women, body image issues can continue to dominate our acceptance of self through out the college and adult years, ranging from focus on parts of our body we do not like to ways that we feel in our body movement.  A woman’s journey of body acceptance takes many twists and turns as we go into childbearing years, our mid life and as we age into our sliver years.  I have found, like the writer of the Real Simple article, that my journey as been similar in accepting this bigger built, less coordinated body of mine!

Learn to Love Your Body by Loving Your Inner Self: Part 2

A Woman’s Life Journey of Body Acceptance  
Part 2 of 3: Teen Women Body Blues  
 The teen years present a mix of fears related to body image for girls. This is magnified with normal insecurities regarding self-acceptance.  Mixed messages are present from society’s view of what is beauty. Girls are transforming into women as their bodies develop at different paces, sizes and shapes.   

 One memory that stands out to me in my body image journey as a teen was the way I felt around my petite friends.

Learn to Love Your Body by Loving Your Inner Self: Part One

A Woman’s Life Journey of Body Acceptance  
 Please join us for our three part blog series on Women and Body Acceptance.  
Learn about strategies and resources to support healthy body image in women.  

Part 1 of 3: Beginning of Beauty or Beast?   
 I came across a wonderful article in the March 2012 Real Simple magazine about a women’s journey in resolving her body image and recognizing her beauty (check it out; see resource below). It got me thinking about our individual paths of body acceptance as women throughout the life span.

Tax Season Cringe: Personal Pros & Cons

Tax Season:Two words that make most people cringe (unless you’re a CPA).  It’s that time of year again! This is a time of year that our budget and finances (which have always, most likely, been an issue) force their way into your brain and wiggle out in a frown. Don’t you hate it? I just spent several hours printing up my statements and swimming through all of the medical and personal receipts- not fun. Just the topic of taxes make me want to curl up inside myself and not peek until after April 15.

Transformation in 2012: Renewing Your Mind

“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”  Romans 12: 2 NIV   

“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent and praiseworthy – think about such things.”  Philippians 4: 8 NIV   

The wordresolutionmeans a firm decision or intention to do something or not to do something.  Resolutions alone do not work for me.

The "In Between" Christmas

 “Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,
In hopes that St Nicholas soon would be there.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads.
And mamma in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap,
Had just settled our brains for a long winter’s nap.

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter….

HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOUR KIDS and YELLING??

Recommended by Dr. Cherry Chevy, our consulting psychiatrist, about parent/child issues:

Amazon Book Description states, " In 10 Days to a Less Defiant Child, child and family psychologist Dr. Jeff Bernstein has developed a ground-breaking 10-day program to help parents gain back control over their defiant child or teen. This powerful and exceptionally reader-friendly guide explains what causes defiance in kids, why it's so destructive to the family, and shows parents step-by-step how they can end the behavior.

My Carolina Today: Grief During the Holidays

Dr. Susan Miller talks about Grief & The Holidays on NBC17's My Carolina Today. Aired 11/8/11.