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Art Journaling Resources


I have fallen in love with art journaling!  It is a great way to express the creative soul within, to allow yourself to heal from old wounds, to challenge yourself to go higher with your passions and dreams.  I use art journaling in my therapy and coaching with individuals to explore many aspects of themselves and their desires for their lives.  I would love to offer you a few website links that provide quality (yet inexpensive) instruction on art journaling, digital journaling, and creative mixed media projects (those that use many types of media: paint, pastels, paper, fabric, pens, inks, sprays, etc.

My Journey with Lap Band


Most of you are probably familiar with the Lap Band. Maybe you’ve seen the “roaring hungry lion” commercial or have read about this weight loss surgery in a magazine. Maybe you’ve even undergone surgery and have a band yourself! Either way, I thought I’d share my thoughts about some discoveries along my journey.   

 I was Banded in July 2010. I’m small framed, 4’10”. I made the decision to be Banded not only because I have a history of losing and gaining weight multiple times in my 27 years, but also because of hormone, spinal health, and ultimately insuring a better future (not to mention I was hovering over the ____lb  mark).

Can You Tell Anything at All by a Person's Weight?

Can You Tell Anything at All by a Person's Weight?
By Deb Burgard, PhD 
If you have grown up in this culture, you probably associate quite a few things with fatness and quite a few of the opposite traits with thinness. Almost every audience comes up with the same lists:

Fat: 
  • Lazy
  • Depressed
  • Sick
  • Out of control
  • LoserBad

Thin:
  • Productive
  • Confident
  • Healthy
  • Disciplined
  • Sexy
  • Good

Even though these associations are not something people from other cultures (or other times in history) believe, they are so strong and unquestioned in our own time that they form the basis of our weight stereotyping, bias, and stigma.

National Eating Disorders Week Coming Up!
















National Eating Disorder Week is Feb. 26th-March 3rd 2012. 

Check back regularly here, at our MCS Blog, for tips, resources, stories, and encouragement. 

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Want more information on National Eating Disorders Week? Check out NEDAhere. 

Learn to Love Your Body by Loving Your Inner Self: Part Three

A Woman’s Life Journey of Body Acceptance
Part Three:Moving into Body Acceptance for Women  
 
For women, body image issues can continue to dominate our acceptance of self through out the college and adult years, ranging from focus on parts of our body we do not like to ways that we feel in our body movement.  A woman’s journey of body acceptance takes many twists and turns as we go into childbearing years, our mid life and as we age into our sliver years.  I have found, like the writer of the Real Simple article, that my journey as been similar in accepting this bigger built, less coordinated body of mine!

Learn to Love Your Body by Loving Your Inner Self: Part 2

A Woman’s Life Journey of Body Acceptance  
Part 2 of 3: Teen Women Body Blues  
 The teen years present a mix of fears related to body image for girls. This is magnified with normal insecurities regarding self-acceptance.  Mixed messages are present from society’s view of what is beauty. Girls are transforming into women as their bodies develop at different paces, sizes and shapes.   

 One memory that stands out to me in my body image journey as a teen was the way I felt around my petite friends.

Learn to Love Your Body by Loving Your Inner Self: Part One

A Woman’s Life Journey of Body Acceptance  
 Please join us for our three part blog series on Women and Body Acceptance.  
Learn about strategies and resources to support healthy body image in women.  

Part 1 of 3: Beginning of Beauty or Beast?   
 I came across a wonderful article in the March 2012 Real Simple magazine about a women’s journey in resolving her body image and recognizing her beauty (check it out; see resource below). It got me thinking about our individual paths of body acceptance as women throughout the life span.

The "In Between" Christmas

 “Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,
In hopes that St Nicholas soon would be there.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads.
And mamma in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap,
Had just settled our brains for a long winter’s nap.

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter….

Living Out Your Identity

As I was driving to work the other day, listening to one of Dan Allendar’s recorded sessions from his Wounded Heart series, he made a statement that really caught my attention:  

When you take away hope, you take away your identity.
Once you stop desiring, you stop dreaming.
Once you stop desiring and dreaming, you stop becoming. 
When you stop becoming, you live a flat, dull life of the status quo.  You settle for becoming a survivor.  You get up everyday and do the same old things over and over and over never truly loving any of it or living out of your identity.

My Carolina Today- Interview

Dr. Susan Miller will be featured on NBC17's My Carolina Today Wed. 11/9 at 11am

She will be talking about dealing with grief during the holidays. Tune in! :-)

The link for online viewing post-air date will be posted here as well in case you miss it.