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8 Sure Fire Ways to Declutter Your Messy Home

 It has been said that one person’s trash is another person’s treasure, but how much “treasure” can our homes hold? Over time, keepsakes and everyday items accumulate and become clutter, taking up valuable living space. Nineteenth-century philosopher Henry David Thoreau has urged us to “simplify, simplify,” and failure to do so when it comes to home organization will eventually result in living environments reminiscent of what you may see on an episode of Hoarders: Buried Alive. The de-cluttering process may be a daunting task, but think about the time you could save by organizing your home.

Tax Season Cringe: Personal Pros & Cons

Tax Season:Two words that make most people cringe (unless you’re a CPA).  It’s that time of year again! This is a time of year that our budget and finances (which have always, most likely, been an issue) force their way into your brain and wiggle out in a frown. Don’t you hate it? I just spent several hours printing up my statements and swimming through all of the medical and personal receipts- not fun. Just the topic of taxes make me want to curl up inside myself and not peek until after April 15.

Transformation in 2012: Renewing Your Mind

“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”  Romans 12: 2 NIV   

“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent and praiseworthy – think about such things.”  Philippians 4: 8 NIV   

The wordresolutionmeans a firm decision or intention to do something or not to do something.  Resolutions alone do not work for me.

The "In Between" Christmas

 “Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,
In hopes that St Nicholas soon would be there.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads.
And mamma in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap,
Had just settled our brains for a long winter’s nap.

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter….

Grieving Past Seasons of Your Life: Lessons from the Bluebird

Nature is a wonderful teacher if we will take the time to watch and learn.  It is God’s way of showing us how life has similarities in all living beings.    

 If you ever have had the sheer pleasure of watching brilliant bluebirds in your backyard, you have probably noticed some unique behaviors regarding their nesting boxes at different seasons of the year.   

Today the bluebird provided an illustration of how we, as mothers, grieve the past seasons of life, especially the years of childrearing.

Seasonal Affective Disorder

With autumn comes my favorite time of year: brilliant oranges and glowing reds, a chill in the air, and most importantly an earlier sundown. You might think I’m crazy or maybe you agree: When the sun goes down earlier, I feel happier. But, most people feel the opposite.  

 Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)is where most people need more day light to increase their functionality during the season. With the days getting shorter, the nights getting longer, and the weather about to dramatically change, SAD is something to be aware of regarding your mental health.

HEAT WAVE of Stress!!

The news warns us of record highs, dangerous air quality and protecting pets, elderly and children in this heat wave. You come inside from a quick walk to the mailbox drenched- gross! At this point in a heat wave, your body and your mind are telling you to stay in and stay cool.   

But what about putting yourself in a stressful situation? Your body may through up a red flag or two, then through up a white one and just surrender. Are you the type to fight these dangerous situations or surrender?